Yes, a man ought to be a provider but he isn't obligated to provide for every woman he dates.
Especially if the future isn't promising with those women. Providing is something a man does for his wife and family.
Men are also giving marriage benefits in unpromising relationship. It's not cheap for a man to be wise with his money.
There's Gentlemanly gestures a man should do for a woman he is with but constantly providing isn't one of those. Paying for dinner, paying for flowers, occasionally gifts etc. are perfect examples of gentlemanly things.
You are not obligated to provide for a woman who isn't yet your wife. You can help, and in some cases you should, but you are not obligated to.
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