So who's it gonna be? The girl you've been with for a long time now, or the girl you've just met? Let me guess, you're bored of the old girl and the new girl excites you, right? You don't find anything interesting about the old girl and
the new girl really fascinates you, right?
the new girl really fascinates you, right?
You feel like the old girl doesn't make you happy anymore and the new girl seems to understand you better, right? Well, honestly, it's not the old girl who's the problem here, it's you! You're the one who's lost sight of what's important. You're the one who's forgotten what she means to you. You're the one who can't realize how much the girl you've been with for awhile now loves you more than you can imagine.
Everything you think is special about the new girl, was what you used to think about the old girl. Everything the new girl makes you feel, the old girl had already made you feel before. Everything you want out of a girl that you see in the new girl, you used to be able to see that in the old girl.
- Olivia Richard
That's from the girl's point of view. A relationship involves two people. Sometimes it's not because of a new girl, it might be because of some consistent bad habit of the old girl. I think u need to strike a balance. I am not making excuses for the man who walks away, neither am I pronouncing the old girl guilty as charged. It takes more than just talk to build a relationship. It takes willingness,commitment, agreement, patience, tolerance, etc. Every choice comes with its corresponding consequence. If we take time to analyse the relationship, You'll discover that both parties have their flaws and shortcomings. Forever is a long journey that needs a sound journey management plan else they would live with regrets for the rest of their lives or settle for divorce. It is better you walk away now than become a prayer point for your spouse for the rest of their lives.
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